12 Most Important Reasons to Take Time Off

12 Most Important Reasons to Take Time Off

It’s that time of year and many of us are taking some time to recharge and rest up. I, for one, have become a believer in the necessity. I used to work, work, and work some more and basically complain to anyone who would listen I couldn’t take time off. Looking back, it was a fool’s game. Without time off, you miss out on some of your best “work.”

I’m heading to a week of vacation soon and thought it was a good time to discuss the lessons I’ve learned from dedicating myself to finding time for vacation each year. No. Matter. What.

Here is my list of the 12 Most Important Reasons to Take Time Off

1. Your loved ones, remember them?

It’s easy in this 24/7, constantly connected world to work too much. Even when we’re not working, we’re still checking emails, posting blogs on Twitter, and essentially leaving half our brains with our work. Taking some time off with people you care about (and focusing on those in-the-moment times) reminds you why they’re your loved ones. They matter more than anything.

2. This is your brain on vacation

I’ve found it takes a few days to shut off the manic, ever-present and ever-busy chatter in my head. The “OMG I forgot to do xyz” or the “If I don’t find time to do xyz, my business will never be what I want it to be” drifts away after the 3rd day. I’ve found I focus on amazing things like hummingbirds, novels and hearing myself belly laugh in a way that’s been gone for a while.

3. The unbearable lightness of being unscheduled

I go out of my way to not have too much of a plan on vacation. The decadence of enjoying a second cup of coffee while still not having a clue what the day holds is something rare and sacred. My body literally lets go of the tension I carry around in my neck and shoulders the 51 other weeks of the year.

4. The realization life/work/committees go on without you

We all love to make ourselves a little too important. How can our businesses, our organizations, the PTA go on without us? Take a week away, and it becomes crystal clear. Not only CAN they, but they SHOULD. Take that, Ego.

5. Creative Inspiration when you least expect it

Gaze at the mountains, study the waves or take in the view from a hammock and you’ll be amazed at what comes to you.

6. Discovery, discovery, discovery

I like all types of of vacations – adventurous, new places, and relaxing with nothing to do. Whatever kind you take, you’re bound to discover something new. A small town in Michigan might bring you a new favorite beer discovery. A tour of new places in Europe might lead you to a new favorite artist. Whatever it is, never stop discovering. It’s good for your whole being. Vacation helps you do that.

7. Time away helps clients, employees, bosses and others appreciate you more

It’s not easy to tell someone you’ll be “offline” for any amount of time, especially if it’s saying it to the demanding boss or client. Doing it, however, makes them respect the time you give them and the value you bring even more. Living without you for a week could be just what they need.

8. Respect yourself

The very act of saying “I’m away, and I’m not working for you during this time,” helps set boundaries. Not only do demanding clients and bosses need this, but you do, too. Valuing yourself enough to say “I deserve vacation,” does wonders for self-respect. And, that, my friend, is priceless.

9. Find out how the other half live

Those of us who check blogs daily, tweet like it’s life support and write blogs as part of our living begin to think EVERYONE lives like this. Newsflash: Most of them don’t. They run quaint art galleries without web sites, they serve coffee in small ceramic cups, they sell bait and some even whittle. Meet your global neighbors.

10. Disconnect to reenergize

It’s difficult. Believe me, I know. But disconnecting from email, texts, tweets and check-ins creates this magical space to just be. Let it happen. Connect with what’s right in front of you. Be. There.

11. Follow fewer rules to really expand your mind

Rules are all around us. Blog on Mondays. Laundry every Friday. Don’t be a minute late to pick up at camp. All of these things are important, but on vacation you can toss most rules out the window. This type of magic allows you to come back looking at the world with a wider lens. If you didn’t have rules, what could you accomplish? It’s exciting to test it out.

12. Find your smile

I’m lucky because I love what I do. But I have bad days. I have busy days and weeks. I have frustrating relationships with technology. Just because I love it doesn’t mean I skip through every day with a song in my heart and a smile on my face. Vacation, if I follow the first 11 ideas, helps me find the smile that is in there all the time. I think I smile a lot anyway, but on vacation, I find my inner smile in ways that support every other aspect of me.

Enjoy your vacation. Don’t worry about sending postcards. We’ll just catch up when you get back.

Featured image courtesy of wili_hybrid licensed via creative commons.

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Jeannie Walters

http://www.360connext.com

Jeannie Walters is the founder of 360Connext, a Chicago-based consulting firm specializing in the cornerstones of customer experience: customer engagement, employee engagement and connections like social media. She is a board member of the Chicago chapter of the Social Media Club and a member of Faith Popcorn’s Talent Bank, a group of experts tapped for trend-setting information.

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19 comments
MrPigeonPie
MrPigeonPie

@jamaaludeen Extremely! Loved being reminded of some of the simpler things in life.

annedreshfield
annedreshfield

Love this, Jeannie. :) As a college student, I found myself biting my lip yesterday at the pool, watching all of the young kids splash and play. I was wondering when was the last time I'd enjoyed summer without worrying about work, internships, or the upcoming school year. I couldn't remember the last time I'd gotten butterflies-in-the-stomach excited about summer. As I've grown older, summers have become less of a beacon of light, fun, relaxation, and warmth, and more of "that time when people expect you to not sit on your butt." There are internships to be had, summer classes to be taken, money to be earned, things to do, and things to be! When I actually do get a moment of relaxation, a few weeks off before school starts up again in September, I'm going to be taking these 12 steps to heart. Relaxation and letting go of those thoughts/stress/anxiety/fears is the best way to feel better about the world as a whole!

TobeyDeys
TobeyDeys

I was dragged to spend a few days at the cottage ... no phones, no internet, no cable or radio (but some kickin' tunes on the iPod), lots of wine and cribbage (the reality version). I am definitely NOT a 'kick back let's do nothing' person ... but after a little while, I kinda got into it :-)

Great points - great reminders! Thanks, Jeannie!

danielnewmanUV
danielnewmanUV

Jeannie -

This is so refreshing to see. I can't even tell you how important taking time to realign focus and recharge your battery is.

I once went 3 years without a vacation and that was rough.

I think the moral I see here is you have to commit to getting away just like you do to work to make sure the required balance is achieved.

Great post!

jeanniecw
jeanniecw

@danielnewmanUV thanks, Dan! You're right - it feels like a commitment leading up to it. Then you realize it's a wonderful gift. (see you after vacation!)

TheBeanCast
TheBeanCast

@lttlewys Did you ever get on Google+? Just wondering if the post ever turned into an invite.

lttlewys
lttlewys

@thebeancast Grrr....no it's still showing as full and no more right now. I keep checking tho!!

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