12 Most Common Ways To Bomb Your Job Interview
We’ve all gone on job interviews, feeling we nailed it. Yet we don’t get the job. Sometimes, we never hear from the recruiter again.
Take a look at the ways your peers and competitors bomb their interviews… and see if maybe you’ve made some of these mistakes. Yes, these may seem like common sense (which is why we left off overly simple advice such as “don’t be late”). Yet, job seekers make these missteps – every single day.
1. Go Too Casual
“Clothes make the man. Naked people have little or no influence in society.” – Mark Twain
I’m not suggesting you show up to your interview naked. Ask the recruiter ahead of time, on the phone or email, about the company’s dress code. If asking is uncomfortable, play it safe with dress pants or slacks and a nice shirt and tie; or skirt and blouse. Even a “laid back” start-up would be impressed with your professionalism. Better to be over dressed than…well, naked.
2. Arrive Unprepared
You emailed your resume – certainly the hiring manager had time to memorize it, or at least to print it and bring copies with him. Right?
Bring copies of your resume to the interview. The more you know about the company and industry before the interview, the better. Research the company’s history, major competitors, market niche, products, etc. And having a quality notebook or leather-bound portfolio in which to take interview notes will add to a professional tone.
3. The Weak Handshake
A time-honored killer of good first impressions. The interviewer enters the room. They greet you warmly, smiling, and extend their hand to grasp yours… an awkward moment if you over-think it. Will your hands meet correctly? Will they land slightly askew, resulting in that quasi-handshake, squishy, “I wanna’ do-over!” event?
Display confidence and social skills: use a firm (dry) handshake to convey confidence and strength of character.
4. Your Cell Phone DOES Have Ringer Control
So the cell phone ringing at awkward times happens, right? And the recruiter probably didn’t even notice your phone rings to the tune of Rihanna’s “S&M”… right?
This is an easy one to forget since most of us are completely tied to our digital second brain. Turn your phone off (completely off!) before the interview. If you forget and your phone rings, do NOT answer!
5. The Distraction Diva
Almost as rude as answering your phone is the person who allows everything to become a distraction.
It could be the gum they fail to discard, constantly clicking their pen, or the change and keys jingling in their pocket. Nervous ticks fall into this category: constantly clearing your throat, “ums” and “ya’ knows”, tapping your fingers on the conference room table. Simple advice: remove anything that may distract you during your interview – and identify any nervous habits you may have before the interview.
6. Body Language
Your body language communicates for you – loud and clear.
Maintain eye contact with your interviewer. Sitting up and forward shows active interest with your full body. Nod your head at appropriate times and ask questions throughout the interview. An interview should be a two-way conversation – including your body language!
7. Secure Your Opinions in a Safe Place
And by opinions, we mean those NOT related to the job. Political and religious statements are obvious no-nos. But unsolicited small-talk can be equally damaging…
Statements as innocent as “I saw Will Ferrell’s movie last night… SO effing funny!” and “I hate small dogs” (yes, these really happened) can catch the recruiter off-guard – and may even offend.
8. Play the Victim
Want to turn off a recruiter in one brief lapse of common sense? Play the role of a victim.
Tell the recruiter you’ve submitted dozens, perhaps hundreds, of online applications and have been on several interviews. But, you add, that effort hasn’t resulted in a single job offer. You’ve done everything right, you say, but you just haven’t had any luck. Oh… and without fail, you pile on by saying “I just need a chance…”
Immediate fail. Interview over.
9. Premature Negotiation
Please… do your homework – and understand the salary range to the best of your ability before accepting the interview.
If discovering the salary in advance is impossible … only ask after you’ve discussed: a) your ability to the fill the position, and; b) your potential to be a good fit to the company culture. Only then is it okay to bring up compensation – otherwise, in the eyes of many recruiters you’re planting a big red flag in the ground.
10. Insist on Being Elitist or Un-Friendly
With the exception of very technical positions, employers interview for skills, but they hire for personality and whether you can do the job. When done correctly, the interview reveals both. Be perceived as an elitist and the interviewer may pigeon hole you as “over-qualified”. Be the slightest bit unapproachable, and you’ll most likely be labeled high-maintenance.
Use your manners, smile and engage in an articulate manner. Have a sincere conversation with the interviewer. Otherwise, you may just come across as though you really don’t want to be there – now, or as an employee.
11. The Failed Follow-up
Most interviewees send resumes and wait… then interview and hope – with no proactive effort to communicate after the interview.
Don’t fall into the forgotten pile – send a follow up letter after the interview; at the very least a thank you email. Add a few memorable points from your discussion (maybe even a question or two you thought of after the interview). Better yet, send an old-school hand-written thank you letter (yes, snail mail!). The recruiter may now see you as a sincere applicant worthy of consideration – and perhaps even a second look.
12. The Stalker
The opposite of the failed follow-up is “the Stalker” – one who is so eager (read: “desperate”) that all common sense is left behind.
After the interview… the Stalker calls, emails and tweets so often she either scares, or annoys the hell out of, the recruiter. Through her actions, and perhaps despite the perfect resume and work experience, she comes across more like Glenn Close in ‘Fatal Attraction’ than she does the perfect team member. The Stalker rarely gets a first chance, and never gets a second. After all, “No One Wants to Hire a Stalker“.
Avoid these 12 Most common, yet often overlooked, job interview mistakes – and nail your next interview!
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ok i had and interveiw and i nailed the first one on the interveiw we actually worked as part of the interveiw soi figure ok we got the job ok before i could get home from the interveiw i was called for the sencond one i felt that i was not gonna get it once i left this guy he was not friendly at all he did not even smile once he appeared to look like something was wrong with him but any way im saying this because some people as hiring managers bring there promblems to work and take it out on you! i just fell like it happen to me mabye whom ever ruined this guy day i might have reminded him of that person idk what you guys think about that to me that was the weirdest interveiw ever for me.
Mark, all good points! #1 reminds me of a person I interviewed that forgot to cut all the sales tags off his new sports coat. Had the skills; tags didn't show attention to detail... Thank You for sharing, enjoyed reading!
Great points here. I think people just get so nervous during interviews they forget how to act. And when to draw the line between being casual and talking like you're the recruiter's friend and being a professional candidate. I know for sure that for me, saying uhm is a big problem. If they ask you a hard question, it's better to pause and think about it or ask the recruiter to give you a moment to collect your thoughts.
Hey Mark ~ I haven't been on a job interview in over twenty years but I'm in sales, so each new prospect I meet I treat as a job interview. I think each of your points here can easily be taught to your sales team as well. #2 Research and #11 follow up are both cardinal rules for any successful prospecting guide. And #12...so many get confused thinking effective follow up is stalking, such a killer! All great points.
JohnFeskorn So right, John... Great concept to apply these principals to sales -- and sales best practices to job hunting (which involves just a little bit of salesmanship!)
I believe I dealt with all of these when I ran my own business. Weak handshake? That one's easy: come back when you've built some character. But sometimes it takes more than a handshake to tell the stars from the less-than-desireable.
The funniest one (of many funny ones) must've been one guy we interviewed a number of times for a leadership position who made it with flying colors through one, two, three, four interviews with various stakeholders... and then showed a fascinating side of himself when we told him he had passed and was ready for the next meeting. The smiling facade fled and he quipped, "How many more hoops have I got to jump through?" - as if he'd put in his time and we OWED him that position!
Well, guess what? That was an easy decision, too.
tedcoine Love this... "come back when you've built some character."
Yet is it amazing how many FAIL in this area. As child, didn't these candidates have fathers, coaches, mentors, mothers, friends, teachers... ANYONE to tell them how important this is?
Many years ago I had a guy completely fail at his first handshake. He (we) just plain old missed. Michael, however, had the you-know-whats to look me in the eye and say "That handshake sucked, and I can do -- should do -- better. Can we start over?" We did. He did well. He turned into a GREAT employee I trusted with an entire office.
tedcoine I love it yes I am even unimpressed with wimpy handshakes in business networking. Makes me not trust you. The other that is as bad is the hollow hand shake, they shake but palm never touches like they are hiding something.
update! my son just announced he got the job!
excellent post and so true! On point #2 I have to brag a minute: my seventeen year old son went to a group interview at a national ice cream company. He was prepared! He had googled and found out they require you to sing, dance, and do all sorts of silly things. The interview lasted an hour. I asked him how it went. He said, "Mom, there were people there who had no idea what was going to happen. they wouldn't do anything. I felt bad for them."
Lisa_Pool Great story, Lisa... and I'm so happy to hear the good news. Question: where did your 17yo son learn how important how important research was to the interview? (I bet I know the answer...)
One of my first questions of candidates, usually right after I ask them to give me their best 60 second elevator pitch, is: "Tell me what you've learned about <company>?" The look of horror on some faces says volumes. While others LOVE the opportunity to show how much homework they've done. Great filter -- and when the candidate is clearly unprepared, a good way to keep many interviews well under 15 minutes.
Mark - this is brilliant and it needs to be shared with the world!!!
People, give a good handshake, make eye contact, listen, and speak confidently.
Duh right? Seems easy? Not so much. I've been in enough interviews to know that these simple tasks are not simple for everyone.
Great post Mark...
danielnewmanUV Dan, as I was writing this post it occurred to me that common sense should win out in most of the 12 points. Then, I realized that I could think of DOZENS, maybe hundreds, of cases where "common" sense was disregarded, the job seeker didn't seem to realize they were doing anything wrong.
Especially in sales, leadership roles and customer-facing jobs... the recruiter makes an assumption that often puts a candidate in the "unacceptable" category: "if you have a limp, wet handshake with me -- you will with my prospects/employees/customers, too."









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