12 Most Mindful Ways to Let Go of Your Writing Ego

12 Most Mindful Ways to Let Go of Your Writing Ego

There are two words that make me cringe as a blogger: writer’s block. It can be hard to think of content ideas when the well seems to run dry. Even if we are ready to start writing we suddenly have to face down our inner editor. The whole process just comes to halt and there doesn’t seem to be anything we can do. In these cases you need to turn to the mindful ways of letting go of your writing ego. It is time to quell your writing demons by participating in these 12 exercises.

1. Write a disposable draft

My mother once gave me advice from her joke writing experience. She would write 30 gags. The first few would be obvious, the middle ones would be tough, and the last ones would be golden. Give yourself permission to write a few stinkers by intentionally throwing away your first drafts without revisions. Then just move on.

2. Study a successful blog

When reading a blog how often have you said to yourself,” I am a better writer them. Why don’t I have as many comments?” This is an act of defense but we can approach the situation with gentleness; try writing about what you learned by analyzing another blogger’s methods.

3. Run writing drills

In school we used to do timed math drills to memorize our multiplication tables. We had to solve as many problems as we could in a few minutes. We can do the same for our writing. Time yourself for a minute and see how much you can write. Set a goal to write a paragraph more every time.

4. Read an unfamiliar subject

This is about getting out of your comfort zone. The Journey into the unknown is a step on the hero’s path. By reading subjects that are unknown to us we can transform the creative process. These new concepts are tools we can put in our mental toolkit and use in our writing.

5. Do less

When was the last time you did one thing very well? There is a Youtuber with the username Northernlion who has created over a hundred videos playing the same game repeatedly. Although he has achieved every goal of the game he continues to make videos. He still averages about 11,000 views per update.

6. Pay attention

The Japanese Tea Ceremony has evolved beyond a social gathering to a meditative practice. We can apply the same idea to our writing by remaining present and aware. As you type ignore the words and pay attention to your breathing. Your focus may drift during this time to many details of our mind or back to the words on the screen. If it does shift the focus back to your breath and continue as before.

7. Free write

One way to break through your writing stalemate is to write a pile of gibberish. Be inspired by your anxiety and write the worst piece you can. It can be a stream of consciousness, off-topic, or a string of random numbers and letters. It is like a data dump for your brain.

8. Write in a different style

Do you always play by the “blogging” rules? Maybe it is time to start writing in Haiku. Or try your hand at writing a post that is a thousand words or more. This is a great way to shake up a normal routine. Perhaps you will even find your audience responding to a new style.

9. Think visually

Sometimes verbal methods won’t solve a problem.Even if graphics aren’t your strong suit try to convey your ideas in pictures. You may have a breakthrough by changing the context of the situation.

10. Take on a challenge

There always seems to be a blog challenge, carnival, or linkup going on somewhere. These exercises offer writing prompts. Which lessens the anxiety over coming up with an idea. They also offer support from fellow writers which can elevate our mood.

11. Use your hands

There are health benefits to handwriting because of the mind-body connection. We communicate differently when using handwriting then when we type. If you are facing a bout of writer’s block try writing in a journal with a pen.

12. Be imperfect

Sometimes obsessing over our content prevents us from ever getting anything done. We have to love our quirks. It is great fun to look over your imperfections after a year and see your gradual change. You can have a lot of empathy for your journey and use that knowledge to connect with your audience.

As you can see that these exercises boil down to a few points: technique, frame of mind, free writing and finally acceptance. We all have different and diverse styles. I am sure there are plenty more out there that can be added to the list. It is important to explore and find what ways work best for you.

What have you done in the past when faced with a writing block?

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Susan Silver

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Susan is a copywriter who crafts content strategies that rank. She is also the community manager for Gygax Magazine. She shares information on business, social media, and writing.

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23 comments
imgib3
imgib3

This is an amazing, well written and totally useful post! Thank you, Susan! (I'm bookmarking it)

dbvickery
dbvickery

I generally do not pay attention to blog ideas. I just keep my thoughts open for when they come to me. Then it is great to have Wordpress on my iPhone and iPad because I will open it up and jot down a few key points on an idea that hits me. Just this weekend, I had ideas around Robing (a Vickery creation), Bruises and a Tom Landry quote.

Great suggestions, Susan. Gotta stumble this one to help out more writers!

susansilver
susansilver

@dbvickery That is awesome. I was just reading something the other day that spurred an idea. I am one of those people who just jots it down on a piece of paper! Then I can never remember what I meant. I need to get better at just opening up wordpress and jotting down the key points. Great idea!

writingrenee
writingrenee like.author.displayName 1 Like

So much good advice here. I really like #11 because I think that, for many of us, we can sometimes start typing faster than we think. When we write things out by hand, we're forced to slow down and really think about things as we write them. But most of all, I love freewriting (what can I say? I have a soft spot in my heart for Peter Elbow) and that you've included it here. It seems to me that a lot of people see this as taking too much of their time -- "Why write a bunch of "worthless" stuff first?" That's certainly what my students used to say to me when I taught and would have them do freewriting exercises on everything from journals to research papers. The thing is that it's generally not worthless at all. In the process of "mind-dumping" you find quite often that you have one line -- something very much from your stream-of-consciousness -- that really sparks an idea or helps you move past the point of being stuck. Freewriting is one of the best ways I can think of to get to that A-ha! Moment.

susansilver
susansilver

@writingrenee Thank you so much for your comment! I find it hard to explain why I like free writing so much. As you say it has much to do with finding that one gem in all that mess that sparks an idea!

jpJeremy
jpJeremy like.author.displayName 1 Like

There are lots of tactics for blowing through writer's block, but for me, the "just write" approach of Stephen King always seems to work. That is, put something down, even if you know the writing is awful. Professionals don't have the luxury of having "down days."

A more recent (and inspired) tactic for me has been to break out my new camera. There is something extraordinarily helpful about seeing the world through a a camera. A single good photograph can leave me writing for days.

susansilver
susansilver

@jpJeremy I love the photograph idea! It seems like a great way to use flickr for a blog. Something I wanted to do, but I couldn't think of how to incorporate it.

nischala.murthy
nischala.murthy like.author.displayName 1 Like

Great ideas Susan... I think its also important is to enjoy the process.. There's just so many advice suggestions tips tools advice that Sometimes I just tell myself ENOUGH! Just do what you feel and think is RIGHT and enjoy! And its worked for me.. I guess BE YOURSELF, EXPERIMENT, LEARN AND EVOLVE...

amberrisme
amberrisme like.author.displayName like.author.displayName like.author.displayName 3 Like

I think if you can handle #12, you're better off than 75% of other bloggers out there. This post was awesome.

susansilver
susansilver

@amberrisme So true! Some of my favorite bloggers are the ones who talk about their mistakes. Sometimes it is even the best way to illustrate how much you really do know!

Kim Phillips
Kim Phillips like.author.displayName like.author.displayName 2 Like

Sometimes I make lists of everything I know about a topic and, usually, it will come together into prose. Another starter is the soapbox; nothing like a little righteous indignation to get the words to flow. Passion for a topic often makes for good writing (as long as the logical mind doesn't go out the window). A truism for oratory also applies to writing: people don't react to what you say, they react to how YOU react to what you say.

writingrenee
writingrenee

@Kim Phillips Great point about the soapbox. It's happened to me a number of times where I've sat down to write a post, and I just speed-type all of that out of my system, scrap it, and go back to write something much more focused (kind of a combination of your soapbox idea and freewriting, I suppose). And you're right -- passion for those topics (with, as you say, the logical mind) does make all the difference.

susansilver
susansilver

@Kim Phillips Very interesting last line there. I can understand what you mean from personal experience. I also love your soap box idea! This year I have gotten braver with expressing my point of view.

AmyMccTobin
AmyMccTobin like.author.displayName 1 Like

I've been told, repeatedly, that kids are not being taught cursive. I hope it's not true. I still have letters from the 1800s from my family that I cherish. They're like art.

sharongreenthal
sharongreenthal

Another idea that has been very motivating for me is to join blogging groups online. Prompts are given by the group leaders, which leads me to explore topics that I may not have considered otherwise. In addition, others in the groups are supportive through comments, and I am exposed to blogs I might never have seen otherwise. Two on Facebook are GBE2 and The Writers Post.

susansilver
susansilver

@sharongreenthal I think this is a great approach. I participate in a weekly chat were we share our best posts for the week. We all write on different topics and it is great exposure to other thoughts.

AmyMccTobin
AmyMccTobin like.author.displayName 1 Like

I actually started using your #11 last week (I cheat because I get to see the post ahead of time) and it REALLY helped me with a difficult post I was struggling with.

As always Susan, BRILLIANT advice.

susansilver
susansilver

@AmyMccTobin I have also been most fond of that method. A few friends of mine will still write letters to each other because we miss hand written communication. It is an art that is slowly dying.

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