OK, #4 definitely drives me nuts when people say we've done business together. That is flat out unethical. Regarding #5, my general flow is Twitter first...then perhaps Facebook and/or LinkedIn depending upon our interactions. However, I *do* like connecting with folks on the other networks because the networks lend themselves to more in-depth discussions. I've established a high level relationship and truly hope to appreciate their humor or insight on Facebook/LinkedIn.
You know, I didn't have an auto-DM for quite awhile. I recently added one, but it was more to be grateful for the follow and to invite folks to engage in the public stream. No soliciting, but trying to be courteous.
Great points, Sam.
@dbvickery I may have to call you out on the auto-DM thing. The sentiment is nice but can anything automated really demonstrate your gratitude?
@samfiorella I really wrangled over it. When I first started, I responded to every follow with a personal DM. Then I read so much about people rarely even read DMs because they were generally spammy auto-replies, so I did nothing. But that seemed rude, so I rode the happy medium by trying to inject humor without selling anything. Here it is...
I don't always DM, but when I do, it's often to show appreciation for a new follower. Otherwise, let's look to engage in the public stream!
Cheesy, but better than crickets? And if it makes you think of the Most Interesting Man commercials, or drinking a beer, that should get bonus points, right?
@dbvickery @samfiorella I love the humor part and your DMs must stand out from the crowd because of that :-)
I just want to scream when I get those "follow me on Facebook too" DMs - many of my friends don't even look at their DMs anymore and you have to send them a tweet telling them.
@Tweet4OK @samfiorella I don't have the bandwidth to "attempt" open conversations with everyone that follows. I spend more of my time blogging, curating content and commenting ;).
By "attempt" I had a decent case study going when I *was* writing a personal DM to every follower...and I rarely got anything back other than the canned "Follow me on Facebook". With this light and humorous auto-DM, if someone responds, I then can start a dialogue.
Otherwise, DMs are saved for people with whom I regularly engage. Even then, you eventually get tired of the 140 characters at a time and move over to Facebook messaging, LinkedIn messages or email.
@dbvickery @samfiorella Rather than sending a thank you DM wouldn't it be better to openly start a conversation? I'm much happier with my DMs since I found a way to avoid most auto DMs










